How to look good for your man everyday
However open and honest we might want to be in our marriages, there are still some things we wish our spouses knew without us having to tell them. I wanted him to notice me and to be attracted to me. Thankfully, he did and he was. Understanding the ways that guys are visually stimulated worked to my advantage in those days. I understood it and I leaned into it. I made an effort to look good because I cared about the way he thought about me.SEE VIDEO BY TOPIC: 8 SIMPLE Things ANY Guy Can Do To Look BETTER - Alex Costa
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My intent is not to upset anyone, but rather to gently encourage us to not let ourselves go — both for our husbands and ourselves. Now, I know that we get older and bodies flab, grey hair pops up and wrinkles form. What was it about you that drew him to you? Perhaps, it was your positive attitude or your work ethic. Maybe it was how compassionate you are or how driven you were. Men and women are wired that way.
God has created us to love beautiful things. Want more on living a Proverbs 31 Life? Please send me the 5 Steps! You may not weigh the same as you did when you met your husband, but do you make the same effort to care for yourself as you did back then? I work from home and most days just rolled out of bed and into my home office. My husband would get home from work and I was still in my pajamas. After prayerfully considering what and how to change, I started to get up earlier.
See this post on rising early and having a more productive day. Now, as soon as I wake up, I take a shower, dress for the day not in pajamas! This change had more benefits that I had imagined when I put it in place! Not only is my husband pleased to come home to a put-together wife, but my confidence has soared!
I feel more secure and honestly, am more productive. When I look put together, I feel put together. I get that. I really do. But, and hear me out on this one — what kind of message is that sending to your husband? Is it saying that everything else in life is more important that him? When you started to date your husband, how did you look and act? Did you dress up and wear cute heels?
Did you put on makeup or perfume? Has anything changed? Or now, do you wear legging and flip flops, no makeup and hair in a ponytail everyday?
That was me, as well. When I committed to making a change, the benefits of the change were incredible. I no longer spend tons of money on clothing I buy a few pieces a few times per year and always on sale I no longer wear heels everyday, but rather sandals or decent shoes after years of flip flops my feet yell at me when I wear heels.
If you normally wear sweats or leggings for comfort, consider a sundress or skirt — both are comfortable and look great. If you normally wear sneakers or flip flops, consider sandals or flats. If you normally put your hair up in a ponytail, let it dry naturally. They will answer those questions in a way to avoid hurting your feelings or starting an argument. Why not ask him what he thinks? Ask specific questions like — what color do you think looks best on me?
Which way that I wear my hair do you like best? Which of my outfits are your favorite? Listen to his answers and make changes accordingly. He will notice and you will feel a renewed confidence in yourself. Which camp do you fall into? Have you stopped trying to look good for your husband or do you make an effort to please him by dressing and looking your best? Tell me in the comments below. For more reading on looking your best for your husband, check out these articles from Stay Married Blog.
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How wonderful. Thank you for stopping by! I can relate, when my family started asking was I going somewhere when I put on jeans and tshirt, I realized that I was not taking care of myself properly.
Since I do not work anymore;disability, I started not really caring to dress. I now stay in whatever I put on for my day out, going to Bible study or Wed nite church. I probably need to step it up a bit and make an effort to look put together. Sue, this is really awesome and helpful. I will share your text with other women as well, I believe it will help them as its helping me. Wellp I feel a wee bit convicted! Lol Thanks for this post! I have been letting myself go. Hair in a bun, no make up, legs unshaven…and comfy clothes have been my go to..
Wake up earlier and shower? He deserves it. Going to make more of an effort tomorrow! I hear ya, sister! I had felt the same way and started to make changes.
Not only did my husband notice and appreciate it, but I felt better, too! Honeztly, no, I did none of that when he ased me out or asked me to marry him. No makeup either. Just me. I completely agree! He noticed, never said a thing, but he noticed. Then one day, after some Bible reading, I decided to make an effort, some days it was 30 mins before he got home, but I made an effort. He noticed! He noticed me again. He noticed I made an effort. He smiled more. There was just something, but I noticed that he noticed.
Some days the effort is more than other days for a million reasons, not all days are the same. Only on date nights in summer does he get the hair down, but where we live summers are extreme. For how we feel about ourselves and for our husbands.
Thanks so much for stopping by! Unfortunately, it is my husband who is like this, when we first met he would put some effort to look nice and attractive to me, but sadly, since our relationship got more serious he literally intends to not listen to my hints about the looks i find him attractive in, or about the ways i feel that i want him more. He intentionally dresses differently than what i love, and leaves his neck and half head to grow,,,although i told him many times how attractive he looks when he is groomed and shaved.
It has just disappointed me so much.. Have you sat down with him to talk about it? Before you do anything, pray, then pray some more.
Came across this while doing a Bible study on marriage rules and looking fir some additional resources…Am I way off by thinking this sounds like just SO much vanity to me?? And no, I didnt go out of my way to look nice when we were dating, or engaged. Make an effort, yes. But go out of my way — do hair, makeup, wear a dress???? Our lifestyle s makes those things so impractical, it would be a joke.
He would hint about clothes or hair or makeup, when we were dating but also knew I had zero time or money to make those things happen. Are we just that bizarre??? HI, Jessi — everyone is different. We are all created unique.
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After all, one of the most important aspects of a relationship is the ability for both partners to look for new ways to keep each other happy all the time. If you want to know how to make your boyfriend happy everyday in little ways that can help him realize how special and wonderful you are, use these 25 ways. Enhance that. Motivate him and help him achieve his goals by talking about his dreams. Guys hate feeling insecure.
He comes closer to you. Gives a naughty look, and then pulling you nearer to his masculine body, makes you feel wanted. Slowly he starts kissing your neck and just when you get into the mood, you hear the doorbell ring. Then you wake up, realizing that it was a dream.
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It's a sad truth that the thrill of primping for date night tends to wear off when you're in a serious relationship. But, if you want to bring back that early excitement when you first started dating and couldn't keep your hands off each other, it's important to pull out all the beauty stops once in awhile. And what better excuse than Valentine's Day to do it up? Here, tricks that'll totally turn on the man who's seen you naked a zillion times.
Updated: April 1, Reader-Approved References. However, you may be in the mood to spice up your look and just to try something different to make your special man see your beauty in a new light. If you want to look beautiful for your boyfriend, then you have to take care of your outward appearance as well as your attitude.
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Updated: September 6, References. Keeping your look fresh all day will help you look attractive to guys. Guys are attracted to confidence and natural beauty, and there are simple things that you can do to enhance your allure. Guys still need to know you are interested, even if you look good to them.
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